A lot of people hear the word 'fisting' and are immediately horrified. And we kind of can't blame them considering the majority of pornography depicting fisting is a teensy bit intimidating. If fisting either giving or receiving is something you're curious about though, please know it doesn't have to be as aggressive as you might see in porn - although if that's how you like it, it totally can be. Everyone, regardless of their sexual orientation or gender identity, can get pleasure from receiving and giving - and both the vagina and anus can be fisted if done safely. So to do it safely, you need to take it very slowly and, most importantly, use lots of lube.
I decided I never wanted to be in that situation again—so badly wanting to give a sexual partner something they want me to give them, but absolutely unable to. Or that you have to be some sort of superhuman or freak to enjoy it. A big part of fisting is intuition and instinct. But there are a few things you can do to make your fisting experiences more enjoyable. Here are my best tips on taking care of your ass if you want to try fisting. Start trying out different brands of lube with a toy to see which ones you like.
Fisting, also known as fist fucking FF or handballing, means anal fucking using your entire hand. Fisting can be damaging to your anus and intestinal wall, so it is important that it is done carefully. Fisting or fist fucking is a sexual technique that demands great care, since it can damage the intestinal wall of whoever gets fisted. The term fist fucking is somewhat misleading: fisting doesn't necessarily actually involve a clenched fist. An often-used technique for fisting is an arrow-shaped hand with the fingers stretched out straight.
By roughman , March 3, in Beginners, post your questions here. I must admit, this is something that I do not have personal experience with, nor do I really want to. I suppose, from what I read, the most important thing when anal fisting, is to always take your time in stretching the anal canal. If you rush into it - no matter what you are putting in there - finger, hand, dildo, fist - you have to make sure there is enough lube, enough time to stretch the membranes and NO PAIN! If you rush it, and you tear those membranes, you will be injuring yourself in ways you can never imagine, and the pain is not worth the gain.